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2013-04-09 17:20:51|  分类: gift |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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She sees nothing wrong with it and thinks I am being overly jealous. She doesn't want to ruin our relationship with him, and won't let me address my concern with him.gift and premium fair Am I being unreasonable?

— Good Neighbor

Dear Good Neighbor: I don't think you are being unreasonable, but you might reframe your concern by dialing it more toward the "bewildered" part of the spectrum.

Moreover, I don't think you need your wife's permission to express a point of view about this gift. Your neighbor's statement (that it is a gift you would both appreciate) leads me to think that — in his stated intent, anyway — this negligee was a gift to both of you.

I agree that this is in poor taste but think you should start by giving your neighbor the benefit of the doubt.

He may hand you an opening when he asks if you "enjoyed" this gift. You can say, "Stan, I've got to admit, I am confused by your gift.gift premium I don't like the idea of men other than me giving my wife negligees; honestly, it makes me uncomfortable."

You and your wife need to learn that age-old dictum about fences and neighbors. Relationships thrive when the boundaries are clear and respected.

Dear Amy: My 30-year-old daughter and her boyfriend (also 30-ish) are kindred spirits. They both enjoy the recycled "grunge" look. Neither bathe regularly and often they have a noticeable waft that wanders by after they do.

They are not filthy looking but executive gift after you are around them for more than 20 minutes, you notice they are unkempt. I know this look is popular among young people — and I normally would not say a word, but I am now hearing complaints about them not being able to get jobs.

They are college educated and quite capable.executive gift They are applying for any job they can find, including fast food places. I wonder if either of them has a clue that their lack of hygiene may have more to do with their not getting jobs than the economy does. Should I say something?

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